I finally decided to cut him out. I had been really hesitant, because I live next to him and I will still see him every week. I am 10% willing to give the friendship another chance if I see that he is willing to make an effort.
My last straw was probably when I came back from korea. He asked if I could send him to the port in the morning, and I said I had a call at 8am. He said I still could send him, since I will be awake anyway, and the boat leaves at 7:45am. It took me 30s in silence to tell him no I would not do that. And I told him to get a taxi. Firstly, that is only a privilege that I give to my partner. He is not even my partner, why would I wake up that early? And I had also given him the taxi numbers.
I heard from L that he had complained about not being able to go to the port, or maybe worrying whether there will be any taxi (I have taken it before, there is). He almost asked L, but eventually did not.
For someone who claims that he doesn't like to ask for help, this is just being so selfish. He remains disrespectful of my time, and my effort. I realise I have been taken for granted, and I wasn't going to let myself continue. So I have not spoken to him since Mon, ever since he borrowed my vacuum cleaner. I am wondering if I should ask him to clear the trash before returning, since I have no idea what is inside his house.
I am honestly so disgusted by his behavior that I just want nothing to do with it anymore. He is smart. But his character is so shit at the moment. He had told me that he's not a good guy, I don't care about his looks, he is just a really annoying person now, and I was open to have him as a fun friend, but now I'm not even sure.
I have probably reached the point in my life that if I made up my mind about a person, I may still give a chance, but I am able to really cut the person out. Like not even think about this person. I went out by myself, and I wasn't going to introduce anymore japanese people to him. Neither am I going to take him to the gym. My petrol is worth some money ok.
I hate inconsistent people, and I hate selfish people even more. I hate both and he's both.
I am happier without him now. I was unsure whether it is a good idea to cut him out esp since we are the only two people of the same country here. I actually wanted to share spices with him, but I guess I will share with L instead. L is also selfish, but he's way more chill than M. I prefer chill guys than someone so damn cocky. As my brother said; he has overstayed his welcome.
I dislike him now, and I am not going to bring him anywhere. He can ask A to do it since he's so fond of A.
As G said, he sees me like a taxi driver. Fuck those kind of people.
