Just today, one of my friends told me she is getting married HAHA how time flies!! After listening to her love story, I realised that Fate played a major role haha she really did not need to worry about whether she can have a relationship or not hehe! It just worked out nicely for her ie her fiancee was her brother's friend AWW how sweet can it get????
I started thinking nowadays, especially about relationships. Would you preferably know the bad side of your partner first, or the good side? If you know the good side first and subsequently find out the flaws, you can get disappointed. But if his good points shine through, it will work out. On the other hand, if you know his flaws and later find out his good points, I guess it works too! It'll be like the badass guy hehe and maybe you'll fall in love with him! Like, you can be touched haha~
For me, I am still pondering... Honestly I really don't like to be disappointed. Who does? I gave up on the first guy that I truly liked because I was already quite certain that it won't work out... Like, there's a major flaw which I find is essential for things to work out. I really am not kidding and it is not too much to ask for. But I know he won't change so... that's too bad.
For my primary school friend... This is a mega big problem. I believe he likes a girl who is shorter than him... I guess he's conscious about his height... I'm the same height as him though! Anyway, I really don't know what to do. Should I let him know? Or should I just support his crush? I heard the girl is a really nice person~
Wow, while typing this, I suddenly remembered the Emergency Couple quote: " Still, I don't believe things letting her go when you love her. Love her as much as you feel that way." That's true. Why should we sacrifice our own happiness of expressing our love outwards? Not only that, the person is surely happy knowing that he is loved.
Oh dear.... I wish the cliche can be broken... But I also don't want to put him in a tight spot... And I don't want to lose our friendship. I'm so very greedy.
In the mean time, I'll improve myself to be a worthy partner of my future one, regardless of whether I can get him or not.
I keep wondering if it is lust that makes me want him. Sure, he's very muscular and tanned. But he is very kind and patient. Or perhaps I should just wait for the puzzle pieces to slowly fit each other.
Haha, relationships really are about puzzle fitting. If two people have the same puzzle pieces, it won't fit no matter what. We need to complement our partner's flaws for it to work out. Oh well, I look forward to the day I can give all my love to my partner and also remain a worthy person for him :-)
