Universe

I personally believe that a kind gesture goes a long way. But it could be perceived wrongly as if you have an ulterior motive? But for my friend, he's already attached so he's not afraid to demonstrate kind gestures since he's really loyal. 

I read online that if you just believe that destiny will help you, you're not doing yourself a favour. Give it a helping hand and put yourself out there. 

Stop wanting to get a partner! It'll come to you. But heighten yourself to have the same consciousness as your partner so that the universe can help you. Just like proton entanglement, the pair changes to the opposite energy regardless of how far they are from each other. I kind of like this analogy/ idea.

I'll give the universe a helping hand by being more courageous, and hopefully put myself out there. I'll stop waiting for things to happen, but make actions to raise my consciousness. 

Future plans

Met up with a friend today. He's attached for like maybe 5 to 6 years? He was telling me that it is time for them to think about the future and I was kind of stunned. I'm younger than him by 3 years but marriage or having children seems so far to me. I don't have a partner yet so it doesn't feel real to me.

But to him, it is becoming a reality. They'll have to think about the future and overcome hurdles together. They're way past the honeymoon period and now they're together by choice.

I find that really admirable.

I know I shouldn't rush into things but seriously, I'm kind of getting jelly about my friends who just happened to find the right partner. Where's mine??? In the ocean???

I wished I could date in university but at this rate, it won't be a reality at all. I think I've given up all hope on getting a partner in university...