Partner Checklist

 Checklist of an ideal partner (physical and emotional state maybe)

1. Closely affectionate

2. Tall (at least 10cm taller)

3. Emotionally available (minimum requirement)

4. Can give space/ can take a no

5. Compatible even in bed...? Slightly kinky is good

6. Wear specs

7. Intelligent but easy going

8. Financially savvy?

9. Voice is clear

10. Patient

11. Family is close, speaks english maybe

12. No moustache

13. Grounded and mature

14. Gives good advice

15. Pampers me, but also have a reasonable reason to be angry. 

16. Smart

Refresh (non negotiable) as of 21 Aug 2026

1. Can respect boundaries i.e. can take a no, and give space

2. Travels a lot (not very frequent, but likes to explore, with a reasonable sense of caution)

3. Wears specs

4. Compassionate towards my weakness (I.e. implant, need repetition/ rephrasing)

5. Compatible in bed (slightly kinky is good)

6. Open to having kids 

7. Emotionally available (minimum requirement)

8. Voice is clear

9. Calm (to keep my anxiety down)

10. Not self centered

Refresh (as of 11 October 2026)

1. Can respect boundaries i.e. can take a no, and give space

2. Travels a lot (not very frequent, but likes to explore, with a reasonable sense of caution)

3. Compassionate towards my weakness (I.e. implant, need repetition/ rephrasing)

4. Growth Mindset i.e. sees his earning potential and want to do something with it. Doesn't need to change job every two years or chase money obsessively, but someone who is curious, proactive and willing to develop himself.

5. Compatible in bed (slightly kinky is good)

6. Open to having kids 

7. Emotionally available (minimum requirement)

8. Voice is clear

9. Calm (to keep my anxiety down)

Deal breakers (21 October 2026)

1. Someone with mood swings (walk on thin ice)

2. Silent treatment during conflicts

3. Big ego, stubborn (?)