1. Because to be desired is not the same thing as to be valued. You cannot build a relationship with someone who doesn't value you - they ignore your texts, they ignore your bids for connection, and they refuse to have hard conversations with you and talk about the future. They're not interested in truly understanding you.
2. It is not your job to try to convince someone to value you, commit to you, or love you. Your job is to be the protector of your heart, boundaries, and values. And you must challenge yourself to be that protector.
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